I'm with John Cole. Call out Gavin right (cough) now!
This demands immediate and uninterrupted attention. An example:
Have you dated liberals before? If so, any difference you can tell between liberal and conservative guys?Heavens to Betsy! She waits for them to warm up!!
...My experience with liberals is that superficially, they may be more fun to be around. They're a bit looser and more relaxed. They make an effort to be more sensitive, but the sensitivity only goes so far. It's easy for a man to keep this illusion of being a great, sensitive romantic if he knows he's just going to sleep with you and then say good-bye. Anybody can be Mr. Love God for one night or one week or one month.
When I became conservative, which coincided with my becoming a Christian, I realized that even though there were things I liked sentimentally about liberal men, I wanted somebody who shared my values. Conservatives might not always be so easy to get along with at first, but I thought it was worth my time to get to know men who were compatible with me and would eventually warm up.
This is going to take some work.